Abstract: Living and development are human's eternal pursuit in life.Contemporary Chinese people meet severe threat and challenge in life and development.There are a lot of predicament between man and nature,man and man,man and himself.The main reasons are the extreme human-centered doctrine,unreasonable practical idea and action,the bias of social development,the separation of scientific spirit from humanity spirit,benefit contradiction between people and people,and people's inherent contradiction.The surpassing way is that we should pursue eternal development between man and nature,coordinate benefit contradiction between people,discard human's inherent contradiction,and realize human development in an all-round way.